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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really like this girl. She's my first love. I had a couple of crushes but I know that this one is different from others. Unfortunately as she told me over a year ago, she already has a boyfriend. I was really hurt when I knew about that. Since she acts like she does not have one and the two of us were somehow in already an intimate relationship. I became so desperate to the point that I already forgot about myself. I tried to overcome this by not talking to her instantly when I realized I have to move on(not gradually as in immediately). for a year or more. Unfortunately she still tries to start conversations with me, waves at me at the corridor in our university buildings and talk to me on our way home in the public transportation. But I always just ignore her to the point that I think that she has never existed. Fortunately that thing worked out and I got her completely out of my mind and I thought that I have completely moved on even if most if not all of my friends know how devastated am I and is not the same guy they knew before. I was a very good student before and got failing grades during that "dark period" of mine. Suddenly she starts to approach me. I don't know her motive why? My friends think that she has broken up with her boyfriend that's why she seeks me. Though I want to believe that theory, I never believed that she's ever had a boyfriend or so even if she always had someone on the phone I didn't know. (or I just fool myself) I really want to know what to do now because there has been too much pain that I have undergone and I don't want anymore of that. Also since the two of us were very close friends and she's my classmate in most of my classes, we have the same friends and I think they are really hiding something from me since the very beginning. Take note that most are rooting for me and her to be together. What should I do? develop friendship with her(but I am always hurt every time I think of me and her not being together)? Love her again? Ignore her forever?
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