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writes:I really dono what to do! I've recently met this guy whom i've grown really close! he's sort of kissed me once! We are close friends..share almost everything n i'd broken up with my ex two months back n he wants me backi don wanna get back..its been torturous n I'd suffered in the past!Thing is i'm feeling guilty now!My special friend i no sort of likes me..i kindalike talking to him!he's 6 years than me!i don want him to ask me out!How do i react if that situation pops out! i don wanna hurt him.but i want himas my close friend!i keep feeling guilty about this that I'm growing closer dayby day!
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reader, Sharon1111  +, writes (2 March 2010):
 How about you just thank him nicely if he does but say you like things just as they are and hope he feels ok about this?
If he says no, you could just say, nicely, something like "I feel disappointed about that. I would like things to stay just as they are."
You just keep talking, step by step, saying your truth pleasantly and not agreeing to what you don't want.
You can't make him want what he doesn't want and he shouldn't try to make you do what you don't want.
You have the right to say no and to choose what you want out of life.
I believe it is better to be truthful and gentle. It is not cruel to look after yourself.
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reader, jdferns666 +, writes (2 March 2010):
 Just very honestly say it to the friend. Avoid hanging out with him too much.. at least for a week or so . keep it short even when you do meet him.
u have just been out of a relationship make it clear to him what u are looking for even if it is good friendship.
and babe seriously dont kiss him back if u dont feel the way he does.
if his intentions are good even if it means to be just friends..he will definately understand once u have made it clear to him, if he doesnt, then u will know u have to let go!! all depends on you.
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