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writes:Hi, I am a bi-sexual divorced lady, recently I met a married lady online. Initially this was on the basis of no strings attached sex. We chatted and sent texts to each and over a very short space of time I felt really drawn towards her. This really wasn't meant to happen. Last week we booked a hotel so that we could meet in private, before this I sensed that she felt that this was getting far too heavy for her, so I suggested that if she wanted to back out then this was the time to do it, to which she replied that she needed time to think. The next day she got back to me and said that she really wanted to go through with it. So we met. We slept together, wasn't the most mind blowing sex ever, but it didn't seem to matter. More about kissing and cuddling. I asked her if she was still worried to which she replied that she was slightly more worried now. Then all of a sudden for no apparent reason she just switched off got dressed and said that she had to go. She looked as if she was about to cry as she walked off. She says that she needs to stay with her husband. I am right in thinking that she felt something too or have I been played i.e fulfilled a fantasy?
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reader, kazz1 +, writes (1 August 2010):
 i know how your feeling. i have a similer problem with a married woman.but to say that you had sex does show that she has feelings for you. its probably her feelings that has scared her.i suggest you back off for the time being and wait for her to contact you.its her move now, let her make it.take care.
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reader, Liza999  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 You mentioned it was no strings attached situation are you sure this is truly what you want? I don't think you have been played so to speak, the first time I was with a woman it totally freaked me out. Don't take it personally and next time you are out looking be clear on what it truly is you are looking for.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 July 2010):
Bottom line, she is a married woman. That's it. Like married men, she will use and abuse those who decide to take them on, like you. She's a cheat, and a liar. That's it. Chances are you could have been a fantasy, or she suddenly woke up and realized that she was risking more by being with you. Married people are a no-no. You ruin your reputation, and you get hurt.
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