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writes: i need help i love my ex boyfriend so much he broke up with me because he couldn face me after he went to someone elses party instead of mine we were going out for a very long time im going nuts with you the thoughts of him and it hurts so so much i been told time heals everything but it seems to make it worst i never thought i see my self with anyone else just him but now he won't even talk to me cos i got mad and said something horrid i want to fix this i want us back but stronger !!! how can i do this? p.s he is also my best friend and i miss that to
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 July 2010):
I don't see why a guy would break off a relationship just because he went to someone else's party instead of yours. I'm not sure you know all the facts here. I think there's a lot more to this story that you don't know about. Either something happened at that party that he is not proud of, or he has been thinking about breaking up for a long time and now it's happened. I think there is more to this. I also think that you're totally wasting time by chasing him as well. It seems to me that his reaction of cutting contact is very definitive. I think you need to start to accept he has ended it, and start to move on. You'll get there in time. But as for him coming back and fixing this? I don't think it's going to happen.
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reader, celestial +, writes (6 July 2010):
Don't do anything, wait for him to come... it's called gravity.
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