A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi Lucille,I have come across this man who is dating my sister. He behaves very good to me but is emotionally unaviialble. He admits not being serious about any women and also that marriage is not needed to get physical with a women. he is into a profession where he gets his needs satisfied without comitments.She has had a bad marriage and has split and has got into a habit of messaging him all day. though he woudl never ask her seriusly about any emotional help that she needs its moreover casual hi hello and one liner that they share. last week when she went to see him at a food joint (mind you it was just the third time they met) he made some advances of holding her. when she told him she was uncomfortable he moved away. In an hours time he again tried kissing and she lost control. Kissed about five to seven min and the minute she realised she was loosing control she walked away. Later she messaged him apologising that she left as she did not want to cross her boundaries. He too apologised. Its been 3-4 days now. She would still talk to him and he would reply but not as much. What should she do? Why she falling for this emtional unavaileble man? Do you feel he is interested??Even now she initates the talk???What do we do??I dont want her to be hurt???Ideally would he not withdraw if she has stepped away from getting physical???Or is it his ego which is hurt which would only be satisfied if he gets her physically"
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