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Found out my ex is still into me -- should I stop talking to her?

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Question - (6 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been going out with my girlfriend for a while now, and recently I've started talking to one of my ex's, we're still like really good friends but i don't really talk to her cause my girlfriend gets jealous but we just started one night, then we started talking more and more and then like we'd start texting, and i guess flirting, we met up but nothing happened because i didn't want anything to because i love my girlfriend, but then i found out my ex really likes me and we've joke around and stuff and talked about sleeping together and stuff but what should i do, should i stop speaking to her?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010):

Yes, if you love and want to be faithful to your girlfriend.

You're playing with fire. Keep it up and it's only a matter of time until you "accidentally" end up sleeping with your ex.

If you want to play the field, that's fine; you're very young and should be having fun. But do it as a single guy so you don't end up hurting a girl who thinks you are committed to her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

anothe note, my girlfriends cheated on me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

stop leading your ex on and stop putting your relationship with your gf at risk. simple

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (7 July 2010):

If you love your girlfriend, you'll stop now. It's that simple really.

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A female reader, rinnnboo United States +, writes (7 July 2010):

I think that if you love and respect your girlfriend as much you say you do you would stop talking to your ex. Thats so disrespectful and messed up. If you dont want to be back with your ex why are you wasting your time and her time. and putting your relationship with your gf at risk. I think with you also talking to your ex your putting thoughts in her head that you somewhat still like her and want to be with her. Your leading her on. So i think you should stop talking to her before you mess things up with your gf and hurt your ex.

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