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writes: I need help to try and get peace with myself. I'm currently 7 months pregnant from my boyfriend who cheated on me a little over a month ago. This girl he went to meet up with in another town is now saying she's pregnant. He stated that he only did it cause he knew I was hiding something from him. The truth is that our relationship has been nothing but drama. Back before I was pregnant he and I had a disagreement and kind split up. During that time I slept with my ex boyfriend. He said he knew all along and was never going to stop until he got the truth. So now I have told him everything and he said he told me everything but this girl being pregnant is really making me depressed. They only slept together twice bit I can't understand why he wouldn't use protection if I'm already pregnant. What hurts the most is that lied to me that he was helping a friend move and all along had planned a weekend with this girl. He wined and dined her then spent the next day with her. I really don't know what to do with him??
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 July 2010):
You do need to be seen by your gynecologist to make sure this doesn't impact your baby. There are some infections that can be spread during childbirth and your doctor needs to know all the things you might have been exposed to.
Sorry, but try to be brave. There are people out there who simply don't understand that their behavior can have consequences for YOUR health.
Be careful, be safe, and best wishes for a healthy child.
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reader, thabay408 +, writes (6 July 2010):
Sorry for your worry... If he's been with this girl he's probly been with others get checked for STDs. I say this to you because I can't resist a beautiful woman either... even though I'm married... He's a liar and you have to protect urself now... It's cold but it's true. w0rd up ~ESSJ~
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