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How do you flirt without being obvious?

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Question - (6 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Is there any way to make him like me? I see him only at church. We like never talk but he always looks at me.. Is there a way to flirt with him without making it obvious that you are flirting?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

You could try smiling when you look at him. That isn't being too obvious I don't think, it will just give the impression that you are a friendly and approachable person. Which is a nice impression to give!

It might even encourage him to talk to you. Or maybe you could approach him, if you felt brave? You could maybe just say something like, "Hey, I often see you here. My name's ... , just thought I'd say hi." Then just smile and walk away. I don't think that is being obviously flirty. Again, on the surface it looks like simple friendliness and politeness. Just a couple of ideas anyway, I hope this helps! x

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A female reader, RB92 United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2010):

If you want to flirt with someone then generally you want him to notice it. The first step in this relationship though might be to start talking to each other? About church, school, family, friends, life?

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A female reader, Elydiese United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2010):

Flirting is used to BE obvious just go talk to him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

You might WANT to make it obvious. In my experience, guys can be really dense. All guys are different, but this trait can be found in most of them.

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