She likes to dance, I don't, so how can I enjoy clubbing with my friend?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have mixed feelings about going out clubbing. In a way, i enjoy it, as i love the music, especially in a couple of particular clubs that my friends and i go in, but sometimes, i dont like the crowds, although, sometimes i can tolarate it. I also hate it when men that i dont even know try to dance with me or kiss me, especially as most of them are drunk or only after one thing. The thing is, my friend who i go out with the most likes to get up dancing, whereas i would rather just sit listening to the music, because i dont really like dancing, and so that the men cant try to dance with me or kiss me. at least if me and my friend are sat down, we can carry on talking and ignore any men who come over. how can i tell my friend this without it sounding strange ?. she used to enjoy getting attention from men, but, as she has a boyfriend now, she will probably ignore any men who come over too. i havent been out with her since she got this new boyfriend yet. we are meant to be going out next week, and i want to get there early so that we can find a seat before it gets too crowded. i only usually go out drinking every couple of months. or sometimes its about four months at the most. i would also feel safer going out as a group, but i cant always get all my friends to go out at the same time, so sometimes it only ends up being two of us. what should i do ?.

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