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41-50,
*lmas
writes: i am married last nov 2009 i met my husband online marriage and we loved each othere he came from usa to me in uae we married but after marriage i noticed things i dont like it on him and it hurt a lot i asked him to stop cause it hurt , he always talk about his xwife a lot and make her life around mine i hate him when he talk and he say he dont love her and she hurt him but he get mad when he hear she dating someone and say to me i dont care about her life cause i little girl from her i dont want her be like her mam but i dont believe anything he say and i feel my marriage falling apart ..i love my husband and i want to save my marriage Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): i feel he needs your love and support to get over his past. i feel once time passes he will heal his wound.
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reader, peggypoo  +, writes (6 July 2010):
Seems like he is trying to see his ex wife miserable. It doesnt mean he still loves her. But if she was the one that hurt him and caused the divorce, his ego wants to see her miserable for making him miserable. He needs to be treated like a kid. Tell him if he cant get over his ex then its time to seperate. Dont give in to sex so fast and when he wants to know whats wrong you explain to him that it really bothers you about him talking about his ex that now youre not even sure who he is in love with; her or you. You'll see in a matter of time he'll give up.
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