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*anduh75
writes:So... I am 18 years old and I was dating a guy for about 3 years... in the last year of the relationship things started to go downhill. My parents started to not like him and neither did my friends... I felt amazing when I was with him... like his princess. Then a whole bunch of drama went down and I found out a bunch of things about him. My mom is the one who found out everything, but she wont tell me who she talked to. Apparently he lied about where he was living... stealing money... car insurance... and his friends. Which is pretty much his whole life. But the thing is, I don't know for sure that he was lying. He swears up and down that he didn't lie about anything and people were trying to start drama. I really loved him, and I miss him a lot. Everyone keeps telling me that they are happy that I am not with him anymore, and say that I can do way better. The only problem is I liked the way he acted when he was with me. He knows things about me that no one else knows, and I even lost my virginity to him. What the heck should I do? I am having a really rough time trying to move on, and I am having trust issues with everyone now. I know that not every guy is out to hurt me, but it sure feels like I will never find the right guy for me. Especially since my other friends have boyfriends and I don't. This issue is really depressing to me. =[ What do you think???
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reader, Manduh75 +, writes (15 July 2010):
Manduh75 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Nevermind... I solved this problem myself. He gave me a reason to hate him... so I deleted him from my phone... my facebook... and my life. End of story!!
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reader, Manduh75 +, writes (7 July 2010):
Manduh75 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe was talking to a girl that he knew I didn't like under another name so I wouldn't recognize her. They almost had sex at a party. He took her to home coming because I couldn't go... He apparently stole money from someone he lived with...I found out from a friend that he smoked. I DATED HIM FOR THREE YEARS and he told me he was not smoking.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (7 July 2010):
 What was the "whole bunch of drama"?
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reader, Manduh75 +, writes (7 July 2010):
Manduh75 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe only problem is... he keeps denying everything. I don't know who to believe...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): i think you should do what you want, if he is missing you as much as you miss him, you really need to sort this problem out. Sit him down and talk about all these apparent lies. Its YOUR decision, I think if he made you feel so special you shouldnt let that go, just make sure these things that have happened are sorted out, Tell him you need him to be honest for this realtionship to work.
Good luck :)
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