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writes: Oky how do I start... I'm In a long distance relAtionship and I've known him for so long we have gone out when we lived near each other n braken up for lil stuff but know dat he has left we r trying to c how far we can get togetther. He had told me dat we could work stuff out if we talk to each other every day... But so fAr he hasnt called, it's been a while since our last convo. He keeps telling me he well cAll n Im thre wating for his call. Until I can't help it and I call. However when he is home and he answers he gives me N excuse like I'm ganna go eat or mother is ganna use da fone.( I'm guessing there excuses). I just don't know wat to do anymore I realyy like him and da last thing I got in mind is leaving him...Does he realy love me I ask my self so much.. Does he care bout me... Do I exist for hiim?....I have feeling dAt if I don't try to talk to him he won't call...
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reader, RB92  +, writes (6 July 2010):
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and often end because people gradually drift apart. They only really work out if the people involved make a true effort to keep it going. In your case, it doesn't look like he is making a significant effort towards you.
You as a person deserve attention, support and love from someone your with. And they deserve it back. There'll be bad times in relationships but as long as you have and give those 3 things you can get through pretty much anything. If you really like him then maybe you need to take the leading role and call him every night and putting everything into this relationship to make it work. If he still makes excuses (etc) then you visibly deserve better, and though it might be difficult it might be worth considering your relationship with him.
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reader, AlmostTexan  +, writes (6 July 2010):
Long distance relationships are hard to maintain. Maybe you should e-mail or text him your concerns. Don’t worry if he does not respond right of way. Give him a few days. Stop sitting by the phone. Do something with your girlfriends. Try to have fun and a live beside him.
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