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36-40,
*pple-s
writes:im finding it hard to move on from a fling, who is very rude and disrespectful towards me. he ignored my txts and my calls tells me to f***off. but when he wants something he calls me and expects me to drop what im doing to see him. im emotionally attached to him and he knows it.
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reader, apple-s +, writes (16 July 2010):
apple-s is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to all who gave me good advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): I'm a dude. Let me tell you, we LOVE the feeling of being in control. We especially love the feeling when a girl wants us, and we can essentially play her.
Right now you're getting plaaaaayed. Don't let it happen any further. Don't give this guy satisfaction.
Like everyone else has told you. Next time he calls/texts/facebooks or whatever, quickly press that delete button and never look back. Game over. You win.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 Best thing to do is next time he calls, texts, etc just ignore him. He loves it when he gets your attention, and that's what he feeds of.
As someone else said, unattach yourself from him? How? Realize that he's being rude, disrespectful and that he does not care one bit about you or how you feel. You're worth more than that.
I dated a guy for a week or so a long time ago. He started being all flakey and started cancelling dates. Do you know what I did when he finally messaged me to go out again? I deleted his message and never looked back. Best thing I did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): I think it's time you got emotionally UNattached to him and give yourself some respect. Next time he calls you, tell him where to go! You can do better than him. x
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