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writes:Hello all cupids and readers=)! Thanks for reading my troubles and it does mean alot your willing to give free time to help so thank you for being amazing. Well lets just say im not exactly the doctor of love and at that would be an understatement. So back on topic ha, so ive known this girl as a friend for about 3 years (since my freshment year of HS im current going to be a junior) and its always been very wierd between us. I had her for an english class and we would always talk and flirt around and I wouldnt take it seriously, as I just thought of her as just a friend at that time. Well all my friends told me and her that we should be together and we were a couple that should've been. At this time though I had a three year crush on a different girl. At this time I could feel that she kind of had a REAL crush on me.Well anyways my beginning of sophmore year we started talking again and a group of us went to a haunted house and well I started to fall for her and I told a couple of friends that I liked her and for some reason she would just turn me down when I asked her on a date. So long story shorter we got into a fight (texting arguement) and stopped speaking to each other. Well a month later I started dating one of her former friends at that time and I was in love with this girl even though she treated me bad. Around our second month of dating this girl that I had got into an arguement again started texting and talking to me again and wanted to move on. So I did and seemed like she wanted me to break up with my girlfriend really bad and she would tell me about how i'd lost alot of weight and got more handsome and that her mother thought that we should go out exc. This confused me!!!! So I broke up with my girlfriend and was too crushed to have feelings for anybody else. Now in my late sophmore year we casually spoke at school and occasionally texted but that was all. I then had another girlfriend which only last 3 weeks as it just wasn't working. Now in the summer we went to a waterpark and spent the day together drink pina coloda's lol and eating salsa and I broke her glasses =/ but that seemed not to matter to her. Now we've started talking and went out with friends twice and she admitted she liked me more than a friend and I admitted too. Well I invited her on a date with me and she agreed. On the day of the date she then stated she thought we should hang at her friend's house instead I replied with "nah, its ok you go ahead though im gonna go with my friend malynda because I promised her a while back i'd go with her and she invited me today, but we can go anytime, don't fret about it=)). And then she stated "No, lol I want to go now" and she scheduled a date another day which i agreed. Now my question is " Is this girl serious, joking, is she not into me, or is this some wierd teen love"? And how can I seal the deal finally to make her mine, cause I really really do like her I just dont want to make a mistake. Ty for your time!
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reader, romany  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 You've known her years, just tell her.
Say I really like you, and you've said you like me, I wanna get with you, be my girlfriend and i'll do everything in my power to make you the happiest girl in the world.
If she says yes, then you live happily ever after.
If she says no, then you can go find another one and stop these sleepless nights and constant questions.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 I had to read this a few times because there were many this girl and that girl and I don't know who did what to who anymore forgive me. It seems like it was difficult for you to admit feelings so you resorted to avoiding each other or starting arguments to stir up passion. Anyways the interest is still there on both sides. How about you meet her tomorrow and get to know her better, see if the real person matches your imagination of your dream girl. A relationship doesn't start until you feel comfortable about sharing stuff.
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