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female
age
41-50,
*anniepeg
writes:Sex with my boyfriend is always good, except there were times he accidentally poked my perineum, causing it to tear. What do you do to prevent that from happening? I talked to him about it and now sex became a little too careful because I can't fully let go. Every time when I feel he's about to hurt me I brace myself and just pull him closer to me. I want to get rid of this fear because I have been bleeding a few times already. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): Have you tried some perineum massages? You can find them in relation to pregnancy searches. Many women use it to avoid an episiotomy. You could also try different positions - if you're on top you'll have more control over where he is entering you.
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