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anonymous
writes:Hi! My problem is no matter how hard I try I can not "squirt". I have been trying for 3 months now, practising, and trying, and doing it diffrent ways. I always use the bathroom before masterbating, and when I do masterbate while messageing my g-spot I get this "having to go pee feeling" so I push out. Nothing but Urine comes out. ( i am 100% positive) I do not know what im doing wrong? I am also simulating my clitoris while doing this, sometimes without. I tried bieng rough, gentle, firm etc. I even tried using toys. Is there any special techniques to simulating a g-spot better? If so please tell me.Mabe i am the unlucky ones who can't squirt. I am just sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): That's like guys who are obsessed with cumming like Peter North. It just rarely happens. I have never been with or known a guy who's been with a "squirter". Most women in porn are actually shooting pee to make it look like their a squirter. I don't have stats, but I'd say less than 1 woman in 10 can genuinely squirt. That said, I have been with women who get so horny they get sopping wet...like a KY scene from Alien. But never a squirter. Not sure I'd find that arousing anyway. Stop trying for something that isn't real. It's like hoping my dick will grow 3 inches overnight.
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reader, tonik  +, writes (7 July 2010):
 Please do not make that mistake of immitating from porn, porn is fake and it will mess you up if you're into it, squirting is not a must!! As long as you are satisfied with your orgasm then I dont think you should stress yourself about this.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (6 July 2010):
Most girls cant squirt i'm assuming you were watching porn and wanted to try it out, just stop pressuring yourself its not important
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): You realise very few women, even in the porn industry itself, are capable of 'squirting' right?
If you enjoy sex and it pleasures you and gives you orgasms, then quit complaining and just leave well enough alone.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): Most girls can't.. but only get wet to allow for natural lubrication when really aroused or horny. You're certainly not alone, so don't let it make you feel like you didn't satisfy, or do enough.
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reader, Philosophyzer +, writes (6 July 2010):
 It's always been my understanding that not not all women can. I never have, lol, but I enjoy sex and such just the same!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): and this is important because....?????
i have been having outstanding, wonderful, awesome...etc etc sex for 27 years and havent squirted yet. its not a big deal really. dont be sad, dont believe it that most women do it... some do. most dont...and it has nothing to do with how much you enjoy the act. :) mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): This is a very tough issue...with a simple solution. Watch porn. It is a very effective way to get off. Do whatever you were doing before, but while watching someone doing it or even someone else masturbating. Trust me, it works.
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