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writes:I have this friend who I only really became friends with because of another friend. For the last few weeks I've noticed some things. He always picks on me. He does this to a lot of people, but he does it especially to me. He knows I don't like to have attention to me so he will purposely do it and then laugh and say something like aww when I turn red. He's always trying to get my attention. Then if I say or do some thing he will say something like that was cute, but it will be in this way that he really means it and not sarcastically. But then there are sometimes when he acts like I don't exist. Which throws me off. Then I said something today about being uncomfortable around him which was the wrong word to choose because that's not how I feel, but when he got in my car he was unusually quiet and I asked him what's wrong and he brought it up which suprised me. He's not the type to let something like that bother him. Then I've mentioned to his friend about him not really liking me and only talking to me because of our mutual friend and she's like he likes you trust me, but that is as far as she will tell me any thing. I don't want to ask him about it because I don't want it to get weird between us. What are your opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, romany  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 'Odds' could be right, but i'd just let things carry on as they are, unless of course you fancy him rotten, in which case tell your mutual mate and she will no doubt tell him and then he'll get the courage to make first move, but like 'odd' says, dont 'bang' him straight away, its not worth losing friendship for a quick shag, and being used always hurts more, specially when they get it thru acting like friend.
Good luck. x
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Some girls are just really fun to make fun of, even you you don't think of them that way.
His other behavior, however, leads me to believe that he would be open to beign with you. Tough to tell if he likes you as a potential girlfriend or just wants to bang you, though. Try getting alone with him and see if he makes a move; I'd put off sleeping with him until you think his interest is really in you and not just sex, though.
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