My boyfriend grossed out because I dated guys of another race

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so this is my first time talking to an expert about this. i can't talk to my family because all they ever do to me is yell,yell, and yell some more. also because my family and i aren't close. ok so the help and advice i need is about my relationship with my boyfriend (we're both 15). i truly love him to death, i know you might think im to young to know what love is but i am way more mature than a normal 15 year-old. we've been together since february 16,2010, but known each other ever since we've been little. we haven't seen each other this summer except for once. he always go to parties with some of his friend which are really bad kids. we talk all the time (night to day and day to night, mostly 24 hours a day) and when he goes to parties all these girls are always all over him and mess with him, and some of them kiss him out of nowhere( i don't get why some girls are so low and have no respect for themselves?). he tells me every time but it just pisses me off and makes me upset. i've talked to him about it and he's told me that he tries to stay away from it and hes tried very hard, but the most thing that pisses me off is he says one thing and does the opposite. so today we were talking and the whole subject about pass relationships came up and he asked me if the majorette of guys ive gone out with were black, and i was like excuse me. he told me he was just wondering, and i told me yea i guess( i only dated 2 black guys before and the other guy was mexican,but me and him were together for for about 2 1/2 years). he started getting weird and was like disgusted i guess. (hes mexican) he told me if i ever kissed them and i said yes. he told me OOOhhhhh, and then said if we make out i might get disgusted and tell you i don't want to make out anymore , i was like WTF and was confused and pissed i gues you could say. i dont really have anybody to talk to and when me and him were talking he ended up falling asleep so i hanged u. the question i just had was "what should i do?" because he and i have gone through a lot of things.

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