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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother) 6 months ago. Our relationship was great but he got to the point where he had started avoiding me and was always playing computer games. I didn't want too break up, I was in love with him but I had doubts he felt the same and I had a load of stress on me from family and my new business that breaking up with him seemed like a good idea at the time. I had hoped he would say something but he never did. A month ago he announced rather badly he had a new girlfriend. I was devastated. A mutual friend had asked if he still had feelings for me and he said yes. By the end of the week my brother was asking and told him to come over and talk to me. Rather than tell me he had no romantic feelings for me he says he bottled everything up and tried to move on. Another week passes and he tells me none of it is my fault and that he isnt worth it. I asked him if he's not willing to work out his feelings am I the one not worth it. Two hours passed before he answers saying he doesn't know what to say.Over xmas we had a BBQ with friends and some of them including people who hadn't met him all thought he must have had a thing for me because of his behaviour. I asked him again about his lack of answer to 'am i worth it' and he doesn't answer it...so I asked him if he meant what he said about himself not being worth it or if he's just being nice. He tells me he thinks if we get back together he will screw things up and he doesn't want me to go through that. Then tried to say he can't just jump ship and claims he loves his girlfriend. Ever since he's been acting really weird and he has tried apologising for giving mixed signals. I have no idea what to think! Does he like me or not? Are these mixed signals or is he in denial?
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 I wouldn't look at this guy twice, he had his chance and he blew it, your relationship with him didn't sound great so it's time for you to forget him and move on to bigger and better things.good luckxx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 January 2010):
No, he doesn't fancy you. He's a mess that needs to be avoided. He has no idea how he feels about anything. The fat is, even if he did, it still wouldn't work out because he's too into his own life. You know it didn't work before because he was busy on video games, and busy avoiding you. It'll only happen again. He's an ex for a reason. Leave him in the past where he belongs.
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