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Should I assume she wants to equalize the treats?

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Question - (17 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just got rejected because the girl happened to have a boyfriend and all... We decided to meet up for coffee but then she asked me if I want to do dinner instead. The last dinner we had, it was on me so I am assuming she wants to equalize the treats. Not really in for a dinner after what happened and the fact that she is trying to "close" all the accounts kind of hurts me... What do you think I should do? Should I just stick with the coffee?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

She's taken, which means this is bad news. Thank her for the invite, tell her you can't accept and run a mile away.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (17 January 2010):

person12345 agony auntShe might feel bad for you paying for a meal and her not paying for anything, or she might be toying with you because she enjoys the attention. Either way, I wouldn't go with her anywhere. It can't go anywhere. I'd just leave it and move on.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (17 January 2010):

Aunty BimBim agony auntwhat sort of weird game is she playing? I agree with older sister, thank her for the invitations, wish her all the best for the future and walk.

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