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writes:hey thereso pretty much my life sucks...my bf treats me like crap he told me he has nothing to look forward to in life which made me feel just wonderful...(not!) and he texts his ex girlfriend when he is down and needs someone to cheer him up and feel better. i tried talking to him about everything and his response was "see this is why i dont go to you for help" what do i do? im just so sick of always being down and getting put down but i cant break up with him cuz i love him too much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): You should break up with him he obviously still loves his ex girlfriend.
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reader, el369  +, writes (17 January 2010):
If you love him you can try and stick it out and try and make him see that you are really supportive in whatever situation he is stressed or upset about. However to me it seems like you are playing second fiddle to his ex girlfriend and he may still harbour some kind of feelings for her, he probably does love you but has some unfinished business with his ex, if it were me i would leave him well alone to figure himself out. It really is up to how much you can stand, but you deserve someone that will place you first in every situation. Hope everything turns out ok for you,x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 January 2010):
You can break with him and you must. You are playing second best here. Why be second best to a guy who just doesn't care? You can get over him, and you will. But don't stay in a relationship with a guy who really doesn't care about you at all. There's a far better guy out there.
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