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writes: so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both small-average size. about 5 inches and i could easily wrap my hand around it with space in between still. my new bf is 8 inches and HE cant even put his hand around it all the way. his fingers JUST touch. (hes a rlly big guy). he always says how he wants a girl to take it "all the way" in her mouth but idk if i can and i want to please him. is there a way that i can get myself to be able to do that for him without having to use my hands on half of it the whole time? thanks all!
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reader, heather108  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Keep a good grip on the bottom half so you don't gag or up-chuck on him. (that is embarrassing)
If you get on top and do the bull rider thingy, he'll get over you choking the chicken... ;~)
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reader, AlexES  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Yeah actually you are right sorry =)
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reader, AlexES +, writes (17 January 2010):
Dam!! and i think about love, and i see this blowjobers, dude forget that, looks like only blowjobers left!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! (: imm sure he will be happy just because hes getting it haha.
anonymous, excuse me but sex is a natural part of life & experiencing it does not make me promiscuous! he is not just some random guy, he is my boyfriend! i respect your opinion that you believe i should have waited but that does not give you a reason to criticize me. just because you believe that doesnt mean everyone else has to. we havent had intercourse yet, we`re waiting until we can both fully trust one another & are truly in love before taking that step. even when i give him oral, i always use a condom. i am in no way being unsafe and do not appreciate how you have worded that answer.
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reader, Katiekins86  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 just do what feels natural, gauge from his reactions. I am sure he will just be grateful you are making the effort to please him. Ignore that first comment; they may have a point somewhere in what they've said but they have no right to insult you when they don't even know you.
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (17 January 2010):
 One of the best things you can do is wrap your hand around as far as it will go and twist it round whilst moving up and down, only using your mouth on the top, most sensitive part. If you want to try taking it all in your mouth be careful of lock jaw! If you have a strong gag reflex you wont be able to but just relax and move your lips as far down as is comfortable. Make SURE you use a condom! This will not only protect you from harmful STI's but also make the process a bit more slippery and thus more comfortable. Flavoured ones will work a treat.
Have fun and stay safe!
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reader, gurunikki +, writes (17 January 2010):
i had the same problem with my current man. i would suggest that you attempt how far you can take something like a banana into your mouth and still be comfortable(i suggest you try this a few times before attempting anything with your bf). if you feel comfortable then i suggest you then move along to trying it with your boyfriend and see how you feel. just remember, only ever do things that you are comfortable doing and dont be forced into anything. practice makes perfect...good luck with this and have fun
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reader, Emjo +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Apparently if you wrap your hands around the base and kind of give a hand job at the same time then it feels like your taking all of them in your mouth. Lots of boys also like it if you use both hands and twist them in opposite directions whilst you suck the end. Maybe have a go with that and see what he thinks? x
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reader, NM1218 +, writes (17 January 2010):
The reality is there is no reason for you to take his whole entire penis into your mouth.The sensitive part of the penis is the tip,so that is enough to drive him crazy.There is no reason to take his entire member inside your mouth,if you want to do and can,then all the best.Recently I read in Playboy magazine about a similar question,and the answer was that the tip is all that is important.You can lick his shaft up and down.That is enough for now.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Try your best, you could become more adept to it after some practice. You probably already know this, but using your hands and lots of lube can make it feel like your mouth. If he loves you he should be able to accept whatever you can offer and will appreciate you trying.good luckxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): I'm sure he'd be happy with you trying your hardest to take it all. He should appreciate that you at least tried and want to make him happy. Tell him you've never given head to a guy that big. He should understand.
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