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writes:why did my best friend cheat on me with my boyfriend they dont even know i know what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): what a bf and best friend. why are you still keeping quite. - thinking it would go away, that it never happened in the first place, sweeping it under the carpet.
you are cheating YOURSELF by shutting up and these two think they go away with it. is their affair still carry on? you should have some self respect for yourself and confront BOTH of them. and plse do not stay wih the cheating bastard. i think you deserve better, don't you. as for the best friend, hell girl, scratch her eyes out!!!!!!! and make sure all your common friends and associates know what she and bf did.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 January 2010):
I am sorry. He cheated because he's not that great a guy, and she responded because she's a crap best friend. Best thing to do is confront them, tell them you know then cut them both out of your life. You can do so much better.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 Because he wanted to have sex with her more then he wanted to keep the relationship with you safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): they don't know you know? first be sure don't act on suspicion or hearsay. then kick them both to the curb . hold your head up be proud, they did wrong not you, refuse to be a victim. you are young surround yourself with people that are pure and good. If he begs for a second chance just keep in mind what he is really asking is a second chance to hurt you. don't give it to him, if you let him back you are compromising you self worth never sell yourself short. you know what you want do not settle for less.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 well, she obviously isnt your friend, and he obviously isnt interested in a monogamous relationship so I think you need to let them both know that you know and then have nothing more to do with either of them.
And don't worry if they get together afterwards, it's unlikely to last because everytime they have an argument he will throw in her face that he gave you up for her.
Two cheaters together will not make for a happy relationship.
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