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I feel I am his second option when it comes to people he spends time with

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Question - (17 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need help or advice its a lil long but someone please hel.So me and my boyfriend of soon to be 6 years we live together and have a 4 year old son. so the problem is that he has a friend and he is related to me and i feel that all his attention goes to him. every where we go hes there we cant do n e thing if he aint there. he prefers what he thinks than me.n if he has lunch brake hell give him a call to meet with him for lunch instead of me. if he cant meet him them im his second option and that just plain hurts me and kills me inside. i feel that he is his first priority then comes himself and i really dont know where im at.

i know its not jealousy because im not the only person that notice this situation. its gotten to the point where i have anger towards both. i really dont know what to do n e more i need help dont get me wrong i love him n all but im scared that he might love me back and if he does he just does not show it.

I NEED HELP I FEEL SO DEPRESS I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT........:( :( :(

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2010):

Don't be afraid to speak to your boyfriend. I would sit him down and tell him you feel. Explain that you're feeling neglected and need some time and reassurance. You'll soon know what he thinks.

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