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writes:Recently i think i got over my ex because i've stopped crying over him and the wishful thinkin about us bein together but i dont know if i really am or is it a sub-consious front. I got over him but picturing him with my best friend, because i heard a rumour he liked her and i told myself i cant be 2nd best anymore. But a part of me still isnt sure if im really over him, he's happy im over him and wants 2 hang round with me even more than before coz we're still best friends. any advice plz x (btw the rumour about him liking my best friend wasnt true)
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reader, Ti6er  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Once you get the jealousy, the pain, the love, and the hate out of your heart and mind. That's when you know you're over him. It may take days, weeks, months, or even years. Most importantly when you see him like any other guy you would see walking down the street and treating him like just like any other guy, that's when you know you're over him.
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reader, wereallinfected +, writes (18 January 2010):
she doesnt need to rush out and find someone else so that she can get over him....shes just gonna find herself tryin to get over someone else because she rushed into another relationship.
in my experiences, i hardly ever fully get over a girl...unless she did me really dirty.....even so, my ex of 5 years i can say after a year i truely hate for what she has done to me....but ill always love her....now am i over her because i hate her? or am i still tryin to win her love back because i love her? neither...shes a memory of mine, that ill always, in some way cherish....which in a way, im over her because i dont cry myself to sleep anymore, but im not over her because i still think about her......very hard question to answer.....hopefully youll find light in this answer....sorry
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (17 January 2010):
 The most honest thing I can tell you is you wont fully have gotten over him until you meet someone else. At least from my experience I have never felt completely 'over' someone until at least a month into seeing someone else. But don't worry - there's no huge rush to 'get over him' no one knows how you feel other than you so as long as you're controlling it, which it sounds like you are, you'll be fine.
Keep going until you meet someone special. You sound like a sensible and level headed girl - well done you! x x x
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reader, Emjo +, writes (17 January 2010):
 one day it will just click, I promise. Wont be long now, hang in there x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 January 2010):
It sounds like you're getting there. Just keep on getting over him, keep on having fun with friends and keep on doing your own thing, and one day you won't even think about him.
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