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*ord-of-purple
writes:I'm currently a sophomore in high school, and I met my current best friend back in 7th. We've been best friends ever since we started talking, but then I moved away for 3 years, but now I'm back so we're back in touch and able to see each other again.My best friend is a lesbian, and she came out of the closet shortly after I left. Her and I have always gotten along amazingly. We click perfectly, and we NEVER get tired of each other. We have amazing fun talking to each other about the smallest,most trivial things, and we care about each other VERY much.Today was the first time that her and I have hung out by ourselves since I moved back. She just recently broke up with her girlfriend, so I figured I'd help her out and hang out with her so she would have a distraction. Naturally, her and I had an amazing time, seeing as we have fun just being in each others company.Here's the tricky part: See, the whole time we were watching a movie together we were sitting extremely close to each other, rarely leaving the others side. Right before I left, she did something uncharacteristic of her and gave me a really long, deep hug. As she pulled away she moved her head up toward mine, and our faces touched, but then we just pulled into another hug. She chuckled, and I kissed her on the side of the head.I don't know if she wanted me to kiss her. In fact, when I think of the idea I feel ridiculous because we're best friends and nothing else...but I don't know what to think. I'm extremely confused. Is there a possibility that maybe she does have deeper feelings for me, or am I just being an idiot? I reason with myself that she's just lonely from losing her girlfriend. PLUS, there's not GUARANTEE she wanted me to kiss her...but I kind of think she did. Someone please tell me what to think here, and tell me what I should do. Should I pursue this and try to figure out what else this might mean, or should I just drop and forget about it entirely?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Life is taking risks. What if you do nothing and she does have feelings for you?
See if more of these incidents happen and then talk to her about it. Ask her , "what do you think of me". Might be that she just didn't think anything of it, or maybe she did.
Only one way to find out.
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reader, Lord-of-purple +, writes (17 January 2010):
Lord-of-purple is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've always had somewhat deeper feelings for her, because we tried a relationship back in 7th grade but then I moved less than a week after. But she's my best friend, and I'm afraid of making a stupid move that could ruin that.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (17 January 2010):
It seems possible.
Or maybe she just felt lonely.
But do you have deeper feelings for HER? You don't say so.
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