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I worry about when he is ready for sex that I still wont be

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Question - (17 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

First off, I am 15-years-old. My boyfriend and I have not been dating for very long, but I feel like he's the one. I've had many boyfriends before and he is the only one I have ever considered having sex with. (We're both still virgins, by the way.)

The first time we talked about having sex was yesterday. He isn't pressuring me into doing anything (sex, handjobs, blowjobs, etc.). He's said he's "fine with waiting until I'm ready".

I promised myself I wouldn't have sex until I'm at least 16. Now, everytime I think about it, I get sick to my stomach; scared. I know it's because I'm not ready.

But what happens when the time comes that he wants sex now and I am still not ready? Will he be mad? If so, what do I do? Is it true that if he really loved me then he wouldn't get mad, he would understand? Or tell me now, or never?

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A male reader, the vampire lestat United States +, writes (17 January 2010):

the vampire lestat agony auntexcellent question and everything u said is quite true but if you are not ready then don't if he really does love you like you said he will and must wait until your ready sweetie talk to him don't be afraid if he loves you he will be fine and it will all pay out in the end

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010):

if he truely loves you he will not tell you now or never and he wont get mad with because he should doo whatever makes you happy and wouldnt make you go something that you dont want too do , however if he does get mad and gives you an ultimatum then maybe he isnt the one for you.

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