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writes: does anyone here hate the dating game?i went on a date with a girl who lives about 1hr away from me, and it went really well, and we are going to hang out again soon. I always am wondering if she likes me or is she getting bored of me, does she think im boring now that we havent hung out in a few days.Does anyone else go through this after a first date and you dont see them again in a few days? is it normal to worry like this? and am i just over worrying? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, truelondoner +, writes (17 January 2010):
yes its totally normal too be worrying after your first date, trust me, she would tell yo if she gets bored of you but the way it seems like is that she isnt bored at all!
its just you thinking too deep about it. call her up unexpectedly and take her for a date, girls like posh & nice places! take her to stay in a hotel or a romantic eveing! :)
good luck and i hope this has helped.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 January 2010):
I think you're over worrying too much, but yes it's normal to worry and I think you'll find most people don't like the dating game. You've agreed to meet again, so don't worry. If she was bored, she wouldn't have agreed to meet you.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (17 January 2010):
Dating is very simple. To avoid wasting time guessing. Always to a follow up call the next morning. She either likes you or not. If she doesn't, then move on to the next one. I would look for a mate who lives closer to me though. Many people only have one hour a day for free time. You only lose the game if you don't participate in it. Realize she may be dating other guys and you have the right to date other girls. For me, I would date one guy at a time to avoid hurting someone.
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