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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex (Ted) left me for another girl about a year ago. This was really depressing but I tried to move on and after 3 months, I had a new boyfriend (Jim). After about 3 months, Jim and I broke up as he was moving to another place and he wanted me to move with him which I can't coz I can't just resign like that from my job. Jim's transfer to another bank branch in another city was very sudden and he said he doesn't believe in long distance relationship so I have to be with him. Because, I can't we decided to end our 4 month relationship.I wasn't affected at first bec. it was only for 4 months. I tried to move on but then started communicating with Ted again who at this time had broken up with the girl he left me for. We began to see each other as friends but not often.To cut the story short, I had been missing Jim more each day until the other day I cried. I suspected it was him who was trying to call me with strange numbers but i never picked up. I asked Ted if it was him who tried to call me using another number and he said no. And he sounded angry at me on the phone. So I sent him an SMS apologizing about my behavior and told him everything about how depressed I am. I said evrything in 3 text messages. That I miss Jim and that no one knew how i feel. That I realized how I love him and that I cry every night.Ted never replied. So i told him its ok if he doesn't.Five hours have passed and Ted texted me asking if I could send him all the messages I have sent on that day. I said no, because I already deleted it and he said PLEASE. I said no, that I am embarrassed I had sent all those to him of all people and that he should forget about it.He said he accidentally deleted all those messages to which I don't really believe. So my question, why do you think does Ted want me to resend those messages again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2010): Stop communicating with an ex that cheated. Hes proven hes not a good guy and cant be trusted. If you 'love' Jim talk to him... Stop textin/talking to Ted if you know whats best for you.
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