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writes:Hello: Okay first of all I called off my engagement to my now ex fiance last Monday, he is using drugs, someone put a envelope with a letter in it week before last then there are the lies and he will not talk when he should, we live together I have gave him the first option to move out, well since his nephew wrecked his car he is closer to home. what I cannot deal with and I try, is the afternoons if he is not out and about he is sleeping. most times he does take medcation but I know that is not the problem. I find myself getting bored to tears, he's hardly here, lately he's woke when I go to bed, I have a 16 year old handicapped daughter and I am no longer able to work, we have been living together 2 months now. when I get ready for bed sometimes he wakes up goes back to sleep... now when he first moved in he was not like this, he changed to me the first week of December. we don't really say much when he ain't sleeping, I got 2 more weeks from today with him and I do not know.Another thing I see now he does not want to move out. He talks like we are still engaged talks about things he wants us to do together. I have got to be strong and not cave in.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Get him out, even if means you getting a court order. He's lied, he's taking drugs and you just don't need that in your life. Sounds more to me like he's just using you so he has a bed for the night (sorry if that sounds harsh). Talk to a lawyer and see about having him moved out if you can.
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