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*roblemmaganet
writes: Ok so this is totally weird for me. I am straight, but recently I have started to notice girls too. I don't really like them that way, but I'm interested in their bodies more than guys. I don't think I'm bisexual, but I don't know if this is just a part of growing up or if I want to learn more........rumors spread here like wildfire so I'm afraid to talk to anyone about it. Any advice or ideas please? Thank you!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): your welcome hun any time :)
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reader, problemmaganet +, writes (18 January 2010):
problemmaganet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone thanks for responding it made me feel better to know. :) It does make it easier to know this is a part of growing up and that it's not really unusual. Thanks a bunch!!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (17 January 2010):
Believe me its normal. We all become interested in members of our own sex and particularly so when going through puberty.
It's normal to wonder why someone has bigger breasts than us or a larger penis. It's normal to have insecurities about why we are not all the same, why some girls seem to be so much futher foward and confident and why some boys are more hairy than others. Everyone matures in their own time and at different rates and there is little we can do to change it...but still we wonder. It's also normal to sometimes develop an admiration of someone of our same sex. This is how we learn about our peers and it helps us to develop into adulthood.
Don't worry about it, its just part of (as you say) growing up.
Aunty Em xxx
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reader, hanz1993 +, writes (17 January 2010):
ok hun,
well when every girl is your age they probably all secretly feel the same way. It is all part of growing up. You are so used too only noticing guys in "that" way that you are just merely curious about girls. Everyone and I mean everyone questions their sexuality once in their life or even more than once.
It's normal so don't worry.
If you wanna talk more private mail me.
Hope this helps darling.
xxx
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