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*adiamkh
writes:I think my bf is using me for sex...wen I never gave my bf sex we whre all lovey dovey until the day we had sex...it al changed ..now evrytime I see hm he wants us to have sex anywhere or anytym we've did it inda car ,under the tree even at the back of the library n I wnt us to stop ..how do I tell him I don't like what his doing I really love him.nd I'm not ready to loose him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Either slow down and take a step back or accept that once he got some, HE WANTS it all the time.
I agree wit hEyeswideopen, using your body to keep a guy is not worth it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Tell him you have decided that things were moving too fast and that you want to stop having sex so you can concentrate on the other aspects of your relationship. If he doesn't buy this and walks away then you haven't lost all the much have you? At least you'll find out if sex is all he cares about. Using your body to hang on to him is hardly worth it.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (19 August 2010):
Well you can say...um...STOP!! It's your body, you control it, and you control if, when, and where you want to have sex.
If he leave you because of no sex, then great. You will just find a better man who respect you and what you have to offer.
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