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writes:I need help on breaking up with someone that i love but am not in love with anymore. We were together for a year, then broke up for a year, and have been together again for another year lol. Let me also add that i am 4 months pregnant. I love him with all my heart, but i have not been in love with him for some time now. I've tried making things work for our child, but in my eyes things were over before i knew i was pregnant. Its hard because i know he loves me and wants to be with me, but it just seems like we dont get along anymore. We argue way to much about every little thing, and im sick of being stressed out and being put down all the time. So im not sure what i should do or how i should go about doing it. I just cant see myself being with this man for the rest of my life, But i feel like i cant leave him. So will someone please help me?? Thank you.
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (24 August 2010):
Well, try your best not to stress, if he causes an argument walk off, dont shout back, i no its hard because you want to get yout point across,but you shout back and then it carries on. agree and walk off, if he carries on tell him your tired and want to get some rest, make him feel bad for shouting at you all the time. Hopefully things will be better when the babys born, you will need him around, you will need all the help you can get. Why dont you do moe things together, go out cinema, or town or something like that if you stay in all the time, you will get bored and an argument will seem interesting. But take care xx
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reader, reachingforthestars1025 +, writes (19 August 2010):
reachingforthestars1025 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've told him i dont want to argue anymore but he always finds something to get mad about. and its very stressful
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reader, reachingforthestars1025 +, writes (19 August 2010):
reachingforthestars1025 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we're together basically everyday. Only time we're not together is when he is at work or at night time. I dont have many friends so i cant really get out and do much. and plus he doesnt really let me do much, cuz he gets mad if i wanna do something without him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): well if he is arguing with you all the time tell him you don't want to argue anymore and that you just want to get along for the baby because you want your babies dady in it's life.
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reader, DearMe +, writes (19 August 2010):
How much time do you spend with him. maybe you should get out more with friend and then only see him a few hours a day or every other day for a while, so that the time you do have to spend with him you have more to talk about, and wont end up arguing.
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