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writes:I have female co worker whom I have known for about 7 months, we have got on really well since the beginning. Anyway I asked her out on a date 5 weeks ago and the response was yes but she was unable to decide on when to go out saying that she was busy being single mother.Since then we have got on alot more than we used to talking more, helping each other more whilst working. However a twist, she is one of very few female workers on my shift. she has 2 male colleagues whom she has been working with longer than me who have been dropping hints that me and her are an item bla, bla, bla. I have asked her whats wrong with them,she says reckons their probably jealous and to ignore them even though we both know nothing is going on between us. Yes I got there First askin her out. Anyway as this has gone for the last 2 weeks, something has changed and she has started putting distance between us at work ie, ignoring me at times talking to these guys alot more, and talking to other guys and getting alot more friendly with them than she normally would, so i ignore wats goin on and then she wants to talk to me every single time i do so. oh she also told me that someone else who is friend outside work asked her out and she turned them down but that person said they would be there for should she change her mind. Where am I going with this and her...shes either confused playin games or just not interested any more. just need a few second opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): thank you to everyone who answered my question. I have since decided to keep my distance from her because yep i think she is confused. So now shes like trying to get my attention and trying to make small talk...howeva she is still flirting with anotha guy, so again its mixed messages,someone help me out why is she acting like this?
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reader, Western3589  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Too early for these type of mind games. I just think she's confused, maybe she doesn't understand dating
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