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*ylan1987
writes:hi, im 22 me and my family have had a rough time the past few years with health and other things. i thought all the bad times had made us stronger as a family. i love my mum and dad to pieces because weve been through so much. then out of no were my dad has told me,and only me, that he wants to leave my mum and the sparks gone and he needs some space. my mum and sister dont have a clue this is coming. its broken my heart, and im the only one who knows. i cant turn to anyone i know, i dont know what to do. but i have to still carry on as normal at work at home and with mates. im destroyed. i never ever thought this would happen to me
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reader, co-co-connie +, writes (22 August 2010):
really sorry.
i posted a question about my parents messy divorce and my sisters reaction. i know you are having a hard time.
firstly, come clean with your dad about how you feel.
secondly, tell your mother she will appreciate that you told her. your dad shouldn't keep it a secret.
plus if you don't say anything your dad could just walk out which would shock your mother. you need to let it out to her so she can take it into her own hands
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reader, co-co-connie +, writes (22 August 2010):
really sorry.
i posted a question about my parents messy divorce and my sisters reaction. i know you are having a hard time.
firstly, come clean with your dad about how you feel.
secondly, tell your mother she will appreciate that you told her. your dad shouldn't keep it a secret.
plus if you don't say anything your dad could just walk out which would shock your mother. you need to let it out to her so she can take it into her own hands
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reader, alexia_marie  +, writes (20 August 2010):
im sorry this is happening with you, but you have to understand what your dad feels also. im sure that he doesnt want to leave and tear apart your mom, but for him it would hurt just to stay, and everything be a lie. and for your mom, she would feel devastated, but time heels everything, you can help your mom try to get through it also, just try to think about all the happiness you and your parents had. also you never know, your dad might leave but once he does he could want her back.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (19 August 2010):
It is hard..yes. But now what???
Life goes on, hard at times, but goes on.
Take all the good, leave the bad, for you, and your life.
See what went wrong from them,and fix those things in your marriage.
Learn as much as you from this, for you and yours to come.
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