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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:She's in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. She admits her relationship is very rocky, her bf is very possessive, she's being emotionally hurt many times by him. Broke up many times with him but then patched back. She knows I really care for her and loves her. She has feelings for me too but she's just confused. She do realise that her relationship is not healthy and she even told her bf she deserves someone better. She is just afraid she can't move on after breaking up because she thinks its hard to forget him. She knows she has went through a lot in this relationship but she finds it hard to leave him. I'm just worried about her and recently she cried because of her relationship. It's hard to see her going through all these. I really want to change her life for the better, is there a chance for me?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 I think she knows she has you in her back pocket. I'd go ahead and start dating other women. Maybe if she doesn't have you as a back up plan and thinks you may find another, it will force her into dumping the loser boyfriend. If not at least you will be living your own life and not waiting in the shadows clinging to a vague hope.
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