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writes:I recently got back with my ex, whom I've had strong feelings for (call it love) for 5 years now. We've been on, and off. We spoke about love, and she stated that she doesn't believe in it, and has never told a guy that she is in love with them. My worry is that she, and I know how much I feel for her, but what if she never does feel that way?Is it wise to continue this relationship with the knowledge of her lack of faith?p.s. I was told that lack of faith usually leads to your partner moving on to someone else.
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Well, she's just being honest with you.
Quite frankly, i dont believe much in love myself. No such thing as love at first sight, no such thing as one true love etc. etc.
Not that i havent told girls i love them, but for me its just more of a formality; a one word way to show how much faith i have in them and trust in them.
If she cant feel that way, and you love her that much you need to make her feel that way. Make her feel love, and she will return love to you. You dont have to believe in it to feel it.
And more importantly is the faith she has in you, not the faith she has in love. I think you should try to work things out and give things a second go.
Nick.
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