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writes:Ok. So The other day I made a big mistake. I broke up with my girlfriend when there was no reason to at all... We had gotten into a fight and my inability to handle my temper led me to grab my things from her house and storm off. It was a rough day with a lot of tension. I couldn't believe that I handled a fight that way. The next day me and my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) talked about our relationship. We have been together for a while now. We even had plans to get married at some point in the future. She told me that my anger has ruined our relationship and that I need to get myself together. But she told me that she would come back to me and that she loves me. But I'm going to have to fix this mess. I love her and I want to fix this but I don't know what to do. We are pretty much over if I can't figure out a way to fix the problem. My problem is that I need to fix our relationship. Work on my temper and learn to be a better boyfriend. But frankly I don't know how to do these things. I'm afraid that I can't do it. And she won't offer advice for me. She says this is my problem and I need to man up and do something about it. Anyone know what I should do???
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reader, lostlove1 +, writes (21 August 2010):
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 6 days ago because he overreated and flipped out over a small fight. i think hes doing the same thing your doing, except hes too stubborn to come back soon. you should call her and get together for lunch or something and talk about what you need to do to try to fix your anger problem. tell her that you are going to work on it and it wont go away over night but your going to try. you can ever try counseling, dont be ashamed! it really does help.
hope it all works out and dont let her go because of your anger!
goodluck
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reader, alexia_marie +, writes (20 August 2010):
you should join an angermangent ment class, that will show her that your actually trying, and then you should talk with her and ask her " what do i do so badly in our relationship?" hopefully she will tell you in a nice way. and then you can work on it, and then you should sweep her off her feet, and get a romantic dinner, and something that she will love, and i bet she will wanna be togther with you, good luck, i hope it works (:
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