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writes:so im a 16 year old girl and just about 6 months ago i lost my two best friends over a boy.. one of those friends had talked to this boy and liked him before so thats why we arent friends. this boy was my best friend until we started dating in febuary.. we were good the whole time we went out until i broke up with him in april for a stupid reason.. then wanted him back, but at that point he didnt want me back. i would go to his page and fight with girls that talked to him and we got in a really big fight. a week or so later he kissed me and then tried to kiss me again but i wouldnt kiss back that time so he got mad and left.. then texted me a few minutes later saying hes sorry and he didnt feel anything thing when we kissed so it wasnt gunna workout.. so i was asking him why and he said that "i did too much shit" and started being soooo mean to me and like HATED me and idk why.. we havent talked at all and after we broke up he went back to being friends with my ex-bestfriend..but even when we see eachother in our friend groups but he always seems to go to the people im talking to on purpose and ignore me.. why does he do that? but until just a couple days ago he was at someones house i was at and kept looking at me and came and sat down next to me.. and was sorta invovling me in convos.. when i thought he hated me? soo the last couple nights ive been crying myself to sleep cus that night just brought back so many feelings and i really miss him and dont know what to do..we go to the same school in a couple weeks and were supposed to have a class together.. what do i do and how do i get him backk????? helpp!!!
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You need to step back and think if you truly want him in your life. It sounds like you two have had alot of history and ups and downs. I would just ask friendly, casual, and try to talk to him as much as possible. The worst thing to do is play games. Just be friends first and cut out all the drama. Forget about the past.
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