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Confused about what to do about the situation with my boyfriend and my best friend!

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Question - (19 August 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay, you've probably heard this a million times over, but i'm really stuck. i have a boyfriend who i get along with pretty well and also have a best friend who's a guy. he knows me so much better than my boyfriend and we just seem to be able to talk so much easier and spend more time together and all our conversations are so much better than the ones i have when i'm talking to my boyfriend.

there's only one thing wrong. my boyfriend totally hates my guy friend because apparently he talks about me and really likes me more than just a friend and acts really different when i come in the room, although according to my guy friend this is completely untrue. he has been through quite a few relationships now and everytime he talks to me about how much he likes a girl, i feel so upset - its like i really like him. and i'm worried that that's the case. he's always telling me i'm beautiful and that he loves me but i know that's just as a friend and that's all it'll ever be, but i still wonder if he's ever thought of me as more than just a friend, like i have about him. i don't want to like him, but i think i kinda do, which is majorly unfair on my boyfriend - but i've realised he hardly makes an effort with me anymore. i'm just so confused about what to do... please help me :/ xxx

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