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writes:My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months now. We are both 17 and entering our senior year of high school. She recently has gotten a job so I do not get to see her as much but ever since then I've noticed a small change in her. She doesn't text me as often as she used to and when we hang out she seems very distracted. Before I left on a two week vacation I told her about a small anxiety/anger problem I have and it kind of scared her. She told me that she's worried about it next year when i'm in college. It was after that discussion I started noticing some changes. I've sort of brought it up several times but she insists everything is alright and that she not going to leave me. Although I often theorize that shes just saying this to calm me down in fear that she will stir up my anxiety. i'm really at a loss. I know i'm young but I honestly am in love with her. Shes the only girl i've ever dated that ive felt this strongly about and id give up anything to stay with her. So is she going to break up with me or am I just being crazy?
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 To me this could go 2 way
1- You need to calm down, she says its ok so dont keep bringing it up because that will push her away. You need to trust in her, get it?
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- Shes going to break up with you and there is probly nothing you can do about it. But your 17, I dont care if you say you love her and all that, Its been 3 months get a grip! Love takes more time then that. This isnt realy love yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): well, if you feel like your being to clingy with her then give her a bit of space but at the same time, show her you love her. if she loves you to then she will not leave you, and also another thing that you could do is just sit down and explain everything to her, how you feel... how you think she feels and explain what she is doing and how its hurting you, she may not realise shes doing it.
hope i can help:)
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reader, newguy +, writes (19 August 2010):
Look kid. Next time your with her sit her down hold her hands and say do you feel any different about me lately you have been acting different,, or something like that. and really mean it when you say it. tell her that you dont have an anger problem you just wanted to see her reacation to it. i dont think she is breaking up with you. i have had times like this and man trust me the out come is much different then you think. just do what i said and i am sure you will be fine
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