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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Im 13 and idk i think there is something rong with me. Like i see all my friends getting boyfriends and im jus hear watching them haavin fun. ihatee being the single one sometimes. Well truely ireally like this guy and idk if he likes me baac. One of my friends waasz tlkin to him and he saaid thatt iwaasz cutee and had a nice personality but i am shy and timid. Is that bad ? likee ithink bout him soo much and idk waat to do. he so idk different and idk if he would every like me. itsz like he neva wants to tlk to me idk iwaant to tlk to him so baad at leasst be friends with him idk iwaant him to want me but iguess iam asking for to much. HELP Me feel so confuse !
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reader, blue_eyes1981 +, writes (20 August 2010):
You have many many years ahead of you to get boyfriends. Right now the main thing for you to concentrate on is your education.You're 13 relationships are of no consequence to you right now, be sensible about this.
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reader, sweet_kitten +, writes (20 August 2010):
dont hate your self as a single u know being a single is very happy life just enjoy it and dont look to others,be thankful if u are single coz im sure god has plan for you to have a good partner in your life maybe this is not the rigt time for you but soon or later u will find him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Well that sounds familiar, but don't worry there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Boys will come, don't panic just be yourself, best approach, maybe not the fastest but still the best. Now about this guy, he thinks about your personality, that's definitely a plus, he's thinking about more than the way you look, he's thinking about the girl under the surface. There's nothing wrong with being shy either, you just have to climb out of that shell, besides that guy might like you, he just might be shy himself. There is also no set clean cut one hundred percent guarantee to get a guy to fall for you, you can't force someone to love you. It has to happen by itself. You know its one of those few things that escapes even magic.
Just try saying hello, whats up, casual conversation, between classes, after them, before them, lunch line, dances just be yourself, talking to him is a sure fire way to get to know him but don't suffocate him either.
Best of luck! :)
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