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writes:Hi, my boyfriend is the kind of person who gets hired to help people with their problems, he's sort of a counsellor but he says he isn't because he leaves every six months he starts off somewhere new and he doesn't exactly leave them upset because he's helped them and then that's his cue to go. He doesn't tell them he's going, he just disappears without a trace. I only found this out last night and I got worried because I immediatly started thinking that he's going to leave me as well. He had to think about it and he was saying, "For once i'm content and i don't want to leave you, but why? I'll risk it" This just confused me and i said "You're going to leave arn't you?" and his reply took about five minutes but it was a no. I'm scared that he will just disappear any minute and all of today he's tried convincing me that he's not going to leave me because he loves me. But I can't help it. Do you think he's going to leave? And what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dee_G +, writes (21 August 2010):
Dee_G is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you, yeah you pretty much answered my question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010): I am a counselor for some very large industries. Some are highly competitive, and goto great lengths for my expertise. Some have even gotten "jealous", and have gone so far as to order a "hit" on myself and friends I was staying with. While I have bodyguards, these were extremely professional hitmen. I had to use my wits to evade this situation, to protect not only my own self, and also my friends. I "dropped" everything, totally "disappeared" (all electronics communication dropped, and more) for almost a week, until the situation could be resolved and security could be reestablished. This might not ocurre ever again, or it mite again in 2 or 5 or 10 years, I don't know. Yet, when I say it is time to drop everything, I do not play games, it is automatic cut all ties for awhile until things can be resituated. So, not to move when I say move could cause the two of us to wind up in not a good situation. And yet, one must also realize, tomorrow is not guranteed. I look it that way, tomorrow is not guranteed. So, I do all I can every day to help out industry to grow, and to live life to the fullest (withen respectable bounds, yet I don't hold back say if I want to drink a cold beer or some other small vice). Like I said, it is not for the faint of heart. I hope I have answered your question?
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reader, Dee_G +, writes (20 August 2010):
Dee_G is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for helping :) One more question though, what do you mean by dangerous job and how it can be deadly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I know speaking from experience, I am in love with the most beautiful, pretty, sexy lady I have ever met. Yet, I also have a "job" as a counselor to, and it can be extremely deadly at times, in the sense where not only my life could be on the line, the one I love, my lady, her life could be on the line. So, I am struggling how do I tell her I love her and she is my only one, and at the same time, to let her know that being with me could have very very very many comfortable benefits, it could also be lethal. How do I tell someone who I consider to be my one and only that being with me could be deadly, even though I have tons of protection around me,and she would have tons of protection around her? It is not a profession for the faint of heart, yet I love her so dearly. Do I keep her just as a friend, or do I make her my enemy for her own safety? I know this is a question to your question, yet I hope in some way I answer your question ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Sounds like he loves you. He might have a very dangerous job and is wanting to protect you with all his heart, mind and soul. Sounds like you are his soul mate, and if it means he has to walk alone just to protect you even though it would tear his heart out, he would do it. When a guy finds the only one, there is the only one. He is trying to figure out a way where you two can be together and you still be safe. He loves you with all his heart mind and soul.
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reader, Dee_G +, writes (19 August 2010):
Dee_G is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry i am actually 17, i scrolled up and didn't realise it changed the year i was born
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