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writes:Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her for a pic so she just sent one to make him shut up. it just kinda annoys me that she would even send it just to make him shut up. what should i do? We have already talked about it before, this is the first time i thought of it in like 2 months. what do i do should i forget about this and let it pass or do i have a right to be mad? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Dude it's just a pic no big deal...don't worry you guys weren't even together at that time.. You overreactig way too much..
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reader, rambini  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 why why why? a picture, non sexual, sent when you didnt know her, so whats the problem? you need to seriously chill out, a relationship which becomes serious will come accross plenty of much bigger stumbling blocks than this so if you want your relationship to survive, you need to understand the difference between a mountain and a molehill. good luck
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (19 August 2010):
 Nope it's just a picture. not like you guys were together. and be mad for what? you soound like an overly jealous person to me. All she did was send a pic... not even sexual. Get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Everything is insignificant for those who do not care!
Instead of saying him to SHOVE IT UP HIS ASS, the girl sent him a picture. Incremental steps, one at a time. Next time she will be asked for sex, and the asker will get it because the girl got no willpower.
Although the photo in itself is not important, call it an important early warning sign of low willpower, if you like.
See farther than the sheeple can. Recognize losing battles before they happen and preserve your forces.
Break up with the girl and find someone with more willpower.
You have been warned.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (19 August 2010):
 No you should not. It sounds like a really insignificant event.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): You have the right to feel anything you want. However you may have some guilt that you're ticked off. Everything in the past gets to be left alone; it's the free zone.I think you're afraid she'll appease another guy the same way while you're together. And you may be afraid to find out other seemingly questionable stuff as well.Holding her past against her, particularly past stuff when she didn't know you is unfair. Let this go pal. And let the fear go away so you can enjoy her and be at peace.If you have trouble dropping the matter, think of times you did the same thing as her; communicated something sexual about yourself just to be curious or appease someone or something. If you recall a time you did that and ask yourself why, it could help calm your fears and be understanding.
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (19 August 2010):
I don't see why this small insignificant detail bothers you dear!
To start with , this happened before you met her so you have absolutely nothing to do with it , plus she sent an innocent picture so i don't see the harm!
If you want to have a happy relation with this girl try to focus your positive energy on working the relation out instead of digging old unmeaningful details that don't theaten your relationship with your girl . G.luck
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reader, xXJDXx +, writes (19 August 2010):
Simple answer... NO you should not be upset about it. It doesn't have any impact on your relationship in anyway shape or form so should NOT be an issue. Take care, JD :)
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