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writes: me and a friend were fooling around two days ago and i gave him a blow job and then he went and wiped his penis and then a while after that he fingered me, but not untill after did he realise that he didnt wash his hands so i started to panic, then he said he only held the base of his penis with the hand he fingerd me with and i think his hand was dry before he fingerd me, but i was still worried so i went to the sex clinic anyway and got the morning after pill(baring in mind this was yesterday) and my period was due today and im panicing so much!!, pleaseeeee help!! also, is it possible to get pregnant when your not ovulating?? thanks.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (19 August 2010):
Actually, sperm can live from a few minutes to a few hours outside the body, depending on the environment they are in. If the semen dries, then the sperm are most likely completely dead. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pregnancy/AN00281
http://www.teengrowth.com/index.cfm?action=info_advice&ID_Advice=2484
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/sexandrelationships/sex/200927.html
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Maternal/Re-How-long-does-sperm-live-outside-the-body/show/862323
If you used emergency contraception, it is extremely unlikely that you will get pregnant. I think you should stop worrying so much. You've done everything you can and you are only going to mess up your menstrual cycle due to stress.
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOmggg!, thankssss so much, hopefully it will come along soon!
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reader, chigirl +, writes (19 August 2010):
Sperm dies outside of the body, it can only live for maybe a few minutes. If he fingered you a little while afterwards, there is little and no chance of pregnancy. If his finger was dry before he put his finger in you, then whatever sperm had been on it would be dead. Sperm can only survive for a few minutes when it is wet, so if his finger was dry it was most definitely not sperm on it that was alive.
Second, you took the morning after pill. That secures you by far, and I can say you have close to 0% chance of pregnancy now. You had about 0% to begin with, the morning after pill was in this case unnecessary, but it is good that you took it. When in doubt, it is always best to take it, to be on the safe side.
Last: yes it possible to get pregnant while you are not ovulating. There are some days where you have basically no chance of getting pregnant, but you are not capable to calculate those days out by yourself. However they do sell Personal Fertility Computers that measure your body temperature to see what days you are "safe" on. http://www.contracept.org/computers.php
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (19 August 2010):
You're being paranoid! - I mean in the nicest way
If there is no ovulation there is no egg, no egg, nothing for sperm to fertilise. Its simple anatomy.
No you are not pregnant. Your period will come along soon
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