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writes:Im a 16-year old girl who is in the 11th grade when I look around in my hallway at my school i feel upset cause all of my friends that i've known for a long have a boyfriend and im get sad cause i get called a tomboy by my friends and even guys i dont want to be called that anymore so should i get a make over just so i can fit in with my friends and get a boyfriend Reply to this Question
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (20 August 2010):
 Noooo!! Dont change who you are just to "fit it". At your age I wish I was more like you are now. Girls in High School are too "boy crazy". They forget about them selves just to be what they think a boy will like. Do you see guys stop playing sports or hanging out with they'r friends just for some girl? HELL NO! So why should you stop what you want to de for them? Being friends with them is more valuable anywais. Oh and study hard! LOL ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): Yessss you MUST get a boyfriend or you won't be accepted by your peers (who could give a damn about you for that matter). Oh my God. Why don't you just CHANGE FRIENDS!
Seriously, young lady, DO NOT do something as stupid as getting a boyfriend for the sake of it. If you find a person with a nice personality it's one thing; if you want to "demonstrate adulthood" to your peers you'd better concentrate on studying! They'll envy you more, no doubt.
You need a diploma more than a showcase boyfriend! So get down on your books, we look forward to your graduation ceremony!
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (19 August 2010):
SUPER HELL NO!!! Tomboys are soooo much fun :) Well for me anyway. Never be a follower, always a leader. Never let what people say or do shape your life. Just be you, and the right guy will come along.
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reader, redandgreensoup  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 No! I'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend yet (I'm a girl, just to clear things up) and yeah I want a boyfriend, but not to fit in. If you are going to have a boy friend it has to be for yourself and him, not just because you're scared what other people think. And besides, I bet your friends don't even care that you don't have a partner. Just wait until you meet the right guy. :)
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reader, Blod +, writes (19 August 2010):
 No. Be yourself. There's nothing wrong with being a tomboy or not having a boyfriend. You're perfect the way you are. You're you and that's what matters. You're still very young and you'll find a boyfriend one day who loves you just the way you are. Don't get a boyfriend for the sake of it.
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