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writes:I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want to go back. He said a year ago that if I ever needed a place to stay, I was welcome to use his apartment. He is never there as I think( but am not certain) that he stays with his girlfriend. I would just been in and out for one night..use his shower and couch and I suspect he could ask his landlady to let me in. We did try to rekindle our relationship a year ago...it did not work and I have moved on but this would be helpful eonomically. I just do not want to open a can of worms. If I dont see him and no one in his circle knows...what harm could it do?
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reader, gemma8551  +, writes (13 March 2009):
This is verY dodgy ground. Are you completely over him? Is he completely over you? What would his girlfriend think? Personally i would say dont do it, it doesnt seem worth it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Ask him if he has a girlfriend and if she's okay with it, if she is then, why not. Also, are you over him, if you are and know for sure you won't hook up then it should be okay. Good luck.
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