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writes:Do people really joke about threesome invitations? I don’t want to over react over nothing. Im sorry for how long the question is.I am 19. I am still a virgin mostly by choice. I have a long time close friend “bob” that has sort of a girlfriend or fuck buddy ‘jane.’ and they are always over at my apartment because neither of them has their own place. They are both very sexual kinds of people with past hookups and relationships back when we were in high school. We all joke around about them being slutty and me being clean sometimes but its never hurtful kind of stuff for real. They once even had sex with me right there in the room before under a blanket. (I did not know they were actually doing it until later.) Bob is always saying stuff about me and sex like “I’m going to work, you better not fuck her while I’m gone!” and ‘jane’ will just giggle or whatever. But one night we were watching TV and they started talking about threesomes after another friend of mine had left. I think it started when one of them said they would cheat on the other one with the hot star in the movie or something. But then they got more serious for a second. I think they were serious but its hard to tell with them. Bob said “No. man if I was gonna share and let you fuck another dude, I think I’d have to rather do that with like, um, (me) or something.” But she didn’t get like “shut up!” she only said “oh well, Ive had a lot worse than (me) before.” She was smiling and started looking over to me. There was quiet for a second and then she said it again “I have definitely had worse than (me) before.” Then it was quiet for a few seconds. I think I said “yall are crazy” or something to laugh it off.Was that for real? Do 17 year old girls ever joke like that and not mean it? My answer is no but I don’t want to make this weird. Im not trying to be prude about this. If they were messing around or the whole thing was just a total accident, then I might even be laughing and giving them shit about it later. But if it was real then I think I need to say a firmer no thanks so nobody misunderstands anything.
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reader, Jager  +, writes (14 March 2009):
seen as the first reply didnt get through im going to try again.
It sound like you gave the right answer for you at the time. IF it comes up again then you can chose to give the same answer again. However i think that you should not worry unless it comes up again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Threesomes - urgh!!But then again, if someone offers, politely decline.Sex isn't everything in life, or a relationship.People do joke about it - just make an outrageous joke back, if you have a sense of humour about you ;)
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reader, Deczy  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 Dats definitely an invitation.which i dont think is advisable for a virgin.as a virgin, you should give your virginity to who u love and care about not in a threesome orgy or something.!and your friends aint joking.they are trying to mess with your head.plz dont let them..
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