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writes:My fiance and I just broke up after a 2 year relationship. The cause of the break-up is the obvious-THE EX with kids. I find this is a rebound on the basis that they were together for 20 yrs when they split. Their relationship was very rocky, had a lot of issues, cheating, abuse, even attempted murder towards him. Like a fool I was roped into the triangle and after spending those 2 yrs with him, i fell in love with him. We had many issues regarding the kids as I had kids of my own. As u could imagine it was a very hard relationship to be involved with. Things got complex for him and he left me and went back to his ex and the kids. I was left, shattered, devastated and having to pick up the peices of my life. I know that this is gonna sound dumb but, my question is: Will they get a Fairytale ending or would he be haunted by memories of what we had, which in turn will ruin their new found so-called happiness?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): No there won't be any fairytale ending but likewise he won't be sitting there thinking about what you had together either. The realationship is as you say very complex and rocky and all his time will be taken up focusing on it. Do not under any circumstances sit there wondering and hoping if he will come back to you because he won't. Start looking out for number 1 and putting yourself first finding another nice guy out there who can be there for you and your kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): It's impossible to say. They've already broken up once - they didn't work once so maybe they won't work again. Althoug unfortunately, they have children, which is always going to be a strong tie between them both. They'll probably want to try and make it work for their children.But either way, don't put yourself on hold for this man. You don't want to end up getting played around. And even though you love him and it's hard, move yourself out of this love triangle because otherwise you're always going to be the rebound relationship. Which is DEFINITELY not going to be good for your self-worth or confidence.You don't want to waste your time waiting around for him. Find a man who'll appreciate you more than the last one did.
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