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writes: what does it mean find love when you least expect it?how does that work?but there are guys who have loads girlfriends who don't have to find love when least expect it like wise for some girls,i don,t understand,do guys only fancy tall good looking hot looking girls ONLY.are there the only types of girls there are interest in?the real gorgeous looking girls.i think guys have too much chose and girls make asses out themselves for a good looking guy.my mother thinks a girl should not chase after a guy.the girls i don,t like are the ones who talks about guys all day filling there nails in offices. like school girls and sticky a guy picture up on desk tops.,full grown women with degress, sluttylooking more like. and sending valtines day card to one guy they all like him.this in general Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, missamz +, writes (13 March 2009):
Let me tell you something I have learned in life - men like to have fun. They are attracted to "slutty" girls who place themselves openly on offer, that is a fact. However the good news is that this is not a lasting phase - eventually guys want to settle down, and they are not going to choose her as a life partner. They are going to choose a classy, sophisticated, intelligent woman, someone of substance who they will happily settle down with. You will find love when you least expect, but until them just have fun, form lassting friendships and live your life, so at least when you do meet your soul mate you will have lots to tell him about your eventful life!
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (13 March 2009):
It means you aren't actually looking for anyone, when suddenly someone special enters your life. I've found it harder to meet anyone if i'm actually trying my hardest to get a girlfriend, if that makes sense.I met someone two weeks ago, and just before meeting her I had decided to give up for a while and enjoy being single again.Not all guys go for ladies who look like super models, i've found that most really stunning girls are really dull to talk to. Maybe you need to set your standards a little lower? You seem to be very worried about being single for the rest of your life, going by other posts you have made. Just enjoy life, go out and see new places and stop worrying about finding a man, and when your finally happy with your life and who you are, someone special might take an interest in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): The phrase 'You'll find love when you least expect it' means exactly that! There is no hidden meaning!Don't go looking around for love and flirting with everybody you see in order to find 'The One' because it'll just happen.And as for what kind of girls fancy, well every guy is different. Some guys will go for attractive girls, but something ALL guys go for is personality. It always stands out. Attractive girls may be pretty, but they can get boring. As long as you have a good personality then guys will be attracted to you.There is no 'type' of girl that they all go for. I mean, you'd go for a different type of guy to your friends, right? It's the same with guys, they all go for someone different :).Oh, and just to let you know, as far as my personal experience goes, guys DON'T actually like those girls that sit there filing their nails and flicking their hair around. It's too false and shallow. Being genuine is the best policy ;).
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